Why Meditate?

Let’s be honest: meditation can seem a little… weird. Sitting there, doing nothing, while your brain throws a tantrum about your to-do list, that awkward thing you said in 2012, and whether you left the stove on. But here’s the thing: meditation isn’t about achieving some blissed-out, Instagram-worthy state of perfection. It’s about showing up—messy thoughts, fidgety body, and all—and learning to be okay with whatever happens.

As Pema Chödrön, the wise and witty meditation teacher, puts it, meditation is about cultivating qualities that make us better humans. Not perfect humans—just better. And who doesn’t want that? Here are five reasons why meditation is worth the occasional knee cramp and mental chaos.

1. Steadfastness: Loyalty to Yourself

Meditation teaches us steadfastness, which is basically a fancy word for sticking with yourself, no matter what. Think of it as being your own best friend, even when your mind is racing like a caffeinated squirrel.

You sit down to meditate, and within seconds, your brain is like, “Hey, remember that embarrassing thing you did in seventh grade? Let’s replay it in slow motion!” Instead of bolting for the door (or your phone), you stay. You breathe. You notice the chaos without judgment. And over time, this loyalty to yourself spills into the rest of your life. You become the person who can handle life’s curveballs—whether it’s a bad day at work or a toddler’s meltdown in the grocery store—with a little more grace and a lot less internal screaming.

2. Clear Seeing: Catching Your Brain’s Greatest Hits & Remixes

Meditation is like holding up a mirror to your mind. At first, it’s not always pretty. You’ll notice the same thoughts, worries, and mental loops playing on repeat. (Seriously, why does your brain keep rewriting that argument you had three years ago, but this time with better comebacks?)

But here’s the magic: as you practice, you start to see these patterns clearly—without judgment. You realize, “Oh, I always do this when I’m stressed,” or “Wow, I’m really hard on myself.” This clear seeing isn’t about fixing yourself; it’s about understanding yourself. And when you understand yourself, you can start to make kinder, wiser choices.

3. Courage: Sitting with the Emotional Tsunamis

Let’s get real: meditation isn’t always peaceful. Sometimes, it’s downright uncomfortable. You might feel bored, restless, or even overwhelmed by emotions you’ve been avoiding. (Pro tip: if you’ve ever cried on a meditation cushion, you’re not alone. Welcome to the club.)

But here’s the thing: sitting with discomfort is where the growth happens. It’s like emotional weightlifting. Over time, you develop the courage to face life’s challenges head-on, without running for the nearest distraction (hello, Netflix binge). You learn that you can handle hard things—and that’s a superpower.

4. Attention: Being Present Now

Meditation trains us to pay attention to the present moment. Not the idealised, filtered version of the present, but the real, raw, sometimes boring or annoying version.

This might sound simple, but it’s revolutionary. How often do we miss our lives because we’re stuck in our heads, replaying the past or worrying about the future? Meditation helps us wake up to the here and now—whether “here” is a beautiful sunset or a traffic jam. And when we’re fully present, we can actually enjoy the good stuff and navigate the tough stuff with less reactivity, more ease and joy.

5. Good Luck, Bad Luck - who knows?

Finally, meditation teaches us to surrender the labels and lean into impermanence. Good luck, bad luck - who knows? This doesn’t mean we don’t care about or enjoy life, in fact it means the opposite as we enjoy and appreciate everything in it’s impermanence, we let go of the need to label an experience as good or bad which means we don’t get so tangled up in our stories about ourselves and our life.

As Rumi said. Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead let life live through you. And do not worry that your life is turning upside down. How do you know that the side you are used to is better than the one to come?”

Less Reactive, More Resilient, perhaps a Glimpse of the interconnectedness and infinite of all - who knows?

Reducing Reactivity and Expanding Your Window of Tolerance. Ever notice how you snap at your partner, kids, or coworkers when you’re stressed? That’s your brain’s reactivity in action. Meditation helps you hit the pause button before you react. It’s like creating a tiny gap between stimulus and response, where you can choose how to act instead of being hijacked by your emotions.

Over time, this practice expands your “window of tolerance”—your ability to handle stress, discomfort, and life’s curveballs without losing your cool. Imagine being the person who stays calm during a crisis or listens deeply instead of interrupting. That’s the power of meditation.

Accessing Higher Dimensions of Consciousness

Okay, this one sounds a little woo-woo, but stick with me. Meditation isn’t just about managing stress or being more present; it’s also a gateway to higher states of awareness. When you sit in stillness, you tap into a deeper sense of connection—to yourself, to others, and to the universe.

Some people describe this as feeling more expansive, intuitive, or in tune with the flow of life. Others call it accessing “higher dimensions of consciousness.” Whatever you call it, meditation opens the door to experiences that go beyond the everyday chatter of your mind. It’s like tuning into a radio station you didn’t even know existed.

Why Bother?

So, why meditate? Because it helps us become more steadfast, clear-seeing, courageous, attentive, and lighthearted humans. It’s not about achieving some perfect state of calm (though that’s a nice bonus). It’s about learning to be with life as it is—messy, unpredictable, and beautiful.

And let’s be real: in a world that’s constantly demanding more from us, meditation is a radical act of self-care. It’s a chance to pause, breathe, and remember that you’re enough, just as you are.

Plus, it comes with some pretty awesome side effects: less reactivity, more resilience, and maybe even a glimpse of the infinite. Who wouldn’t want that?

So, grab a cushion, sit down, and give it a try. Who knows? You might just discover that the wild ride of your mind is the greatest adventure of all.